Do you deserve? - Overcome feelings of not deserving to manifest your deepest desires
I never knew what the word deservedness meant. Deservedness is rarely talked about, yet its’ insidious nature undermines us at every turn.
In my own life, it was one of my final blocks to complete freedom and abundance though, for a lot of my life, I was completely clueless that it was blocking me from achieving my highest potential.
Sure, I achieved success, and yet, I sensed somewhere inside that I had so much more to give -- and to receive. I didn’t know that underneath the success, hiding deep inside, was a feeling that maybe others deserved more than I did. Or, perhaps I just wasn’t deserving of a truly leveled-up life, justified by my conscious brain that I should just be grateful for who I am and what I already have.
It wasn’t until I explored my own lack of deservedness that I was able to fully open up to living to my fullest potential
Today we are removing a blind spot that you have whether you admit it or not.
What is Deservedness and how does it impact our lives?
The belief that you are inherently worthy of your deepest desires, the ones you haven’t told anyone about or perhaps haven’t even admitted to yourself!
Simply put, it means integration of all your selves and when you do, you recognize you aren’t getting what you want because somewhere deep inside, on some level, a part of you you doesn’t feel you deserve it.
Deservedness is a belief that we are inherently worthy of our deepest desires. This belief can have a significant impact on our lives, it can enable us to get what we really want.
Signs that we feel not deserving
When we feel like we don't deserve something, it can be difficult to identify and understand the feeling. This is because the sense of not deserving often manifests in other ways, such as through self-doubt or insecurity. However, there are some common signs that can help you identify when you are experiencing feelings of not deserving.
One sign is a sense of guilt or shame. If you find yourself constantly apologizing for things that aren't your fault, or if you feel like you're not good enough, this may be a sign that you're struggling with feelings of not deserving.
Another sign is a lack of confidence or self-esteem. If you find yourself doubting your abilities or always putting yourself down, then this may also be indicative of feelings of not deserving.
Finally, another sign is procrastination. If you find yourself delaying tasks or avoiding opportunities because you feel like you're not worthy, then this may be a sign that feeling not deserving is an issue for you.
What are the negative effects of feeling unworthy?
When we feel unworthy, it creates a sense of separation between ourselves and what we want. This can manifest in a lot of different ways, but some of the most common are a reluctance to take action, self-sabotage, and feeling like we're not good enough.
What happens when we feel we are deserving?
Feeling like you deserve is one of the most powerful feelings there is. When you feel like you deserve something, it means that you are in alignment and that you are ready to receive it.
When you feel deserving, it creates a sense of certainty and confidence. You know that what you want is within reach, and this inner certainty gives you the courage to take action and go after what you want.
Deserving also creates a sense of openness and receptivity. You become more open to new possibilities and opportunities because you know that if they are meant for you, they will come to you.
And finally, feeling deserving brings a sense of peace and contentment into your life. You know that you are on the right track, and this inner peace allows you to enjoy the journey along the way.
How can we overcome feelings of unworthiness - and embrace deservedness?
Here are four tips for overcoming them and embracing deservedness.
Acknowledge that deservingness is a feeling, not a fact.
Deservingness is subjective, which means that it's based on your own opinion rather than objective reality. This can be difficult to accept at first, but it's important to remember that everyone has different opinions about what they deserve in life.
Practice self-compassion.
When you feel like you're not good enough or unworthy of something, it can be helpful to practice self-compassion instead of harsh self-judgment. Remember that everyone makes mistakes sometimes, and be gentle with yourself as you work to overcome feelings of unworthiness.
Give yourself permission to want what you want.
One reason we may feel unworthy of our desires is that we think we "should" not want them in the first place. But there's no rule that says only certain things are allowed to make us happy! Embrace your desires and allow yourself to WANT without feeling guilty or ashamed.
Forgive yourself.
Forgiving yourself for your mistakes is one of the most important steps you can take on your path of 5D awakening and to deservedness. When you forgive yourself, you release the negative emotions that are holding you back and preventing you from moving forward.
Your Challenge
Dig deep and look at what are you not willing to claim you deserve.
That vacation? A new car? A new relationship?
Write it down on a sticky note at your desk or in your journal, “I deserve …..”.
Final thoughts
Deservedness is a belief that we hold about ourselves, often subconsciously, that dictates how deserving we feel of our deepest desires. This can have a major impact on our lives, as it can keep us from achieving goals or obtaining what we truly want. Deservedness is often based in part on our past experiences and the beliefs we formed as a result. It's important to be aware of this concept so that we can work to change any limiting beliefs we may have about ourselves and open up the possibility of getting what we truly desire in life.